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How to Make the Right Connections in an Overly Connected World

20 October 2017 16:09

I recently had a friend (who does not yet know Christ) tell me about a 'Digital Detox' that they went on. The premise was that we live in an overly connected world, and by removing all technology and distractions, you are able to better process your emotions and understand your core identity. They went on a week long trip to the coast and were asked to hand over all of their tech devices (including phone) and were only allowed to speak to the 20 or so other course attendees. The course consisted of counselling sessions, team building and personal free time for walks and reading. 

My friend described this as 'refreshing and bizarre', whilst I found the concept fairly intriguing. 

It is sad on one level that we have created technology for our benefit, yet it seems to be harming us in other ways. As one who works in technology, I would be expected to be wed to all forms of efficient tech communication. However, when you look at the alarming statistics of teen depression and self harm, it would seem that although we are more connected than ever, we are clearly missing something. 

It is said that this generation finds it 'harder and harder to disconnect', yet are more lonely than ever. With this backdrop, what can therefore be said to the church, on how to make best use of technology? Technology can be used to make the right connections, remove distractions, but it's addictive pull needs to be handled with care. 

Make the Right Connections 

A website, your Facebook page or your Instagram account are all great ways to connect with others. However, are your connections always for the purpose of drawing others closer to Christ? This is a challenge to us all and worth considering as it is tempting to mistake friendship as more followers, friends or likes.. true friendship and community building has to extend beyond social media. 

Remove Distractions

When I listened to my friend describe the 'Digital Detox', a large amount of the appeal came from removing all of the distractions that come with our tech devices, and social media activity. We can all recognise the feeling of going on Facebook 'just to check' our account and leaving 10 minutes later having watched an endless stream of cat videos or memes - we are so easily distracted when online. How can we remove distractions from our online activities?

For a lot of church websites, there can be a lot of 'clutter' or competing information. We must remember the core of our message and, if possible, de-promote the unnecessary information. This does not mean removing content, it simply means ensuring the hierarchy of your information is clear. 

Beware the Built-in Addiction

It is no secret that social media is built to be addictive, and one way the 'Digital Detox' scores is to confront this addiction. It's rare that we hear churches or Christian organisations talk about the possibility of being addicted to social media nonetheless, it's worth being aware of. Our social media accounts or websites should not rule us, and therefore do not be afraid to turn it off! 

To conclude...

So, will I be heading on a 'Digital Detox'? Probably not just yet, but I have found it helpful to take a step back and consider why it's so successful.

There are definitely lessons we can learn, and perhaps even a space where the church could be offering the answer. In an overly disconnected, yet technically connected world, can the church model true relationship and community?

What do you think about 'Digital Detoxing?' Let me know your thoughts below! 


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